Ever hear a story that makes you say to yourself, “boy did that story come at the right time?” That’s why story is so powerful, because it’s a universal way of communicating deep thoughts. They help us navigate the difficult times and celebrate the good times. Our stories, especially the ones that we retell show what is important in our lives because we want to share our personal revelations.
This morning I was watching a rerun of The West Wing and the following story was told.
A guy falls in a hole with very steep walls and can’t get out. A doctor passes by and the person yells, “Hey doc can you help me?” The doctor writes a prescription and throws it down in the hole. A little while later a minister walks by and once again the guy in the hole yells, “Reverend, can you help me get out of here?” The minister writes a prayer and throws it down in the hole. A little while later a friend walks by and the guy yells, “Hey Joe, can you help me get out of here?” Joe jumps down into the hole . The guy says to him, “why would you do that now we’re both stuck in the hole.” Joe replies, “Yeah, but I’ve been down here before and I know how to get out!”
That story is important because it punctuates a couple of points. We can’t get by in life without support. Even more importantly, finding those who have walked a mile in your shoes, maybe even are a bit ahead of you on the journey to wellness could be a true life saver.
This story is important because I’ve learned both personally and professionally that accruing information shared by others about how to live a full life with a chronic or life-altering illness is crucial to our sanity. The lessons learned about how to deal with the physical, emotional, and spiritual aspects of a health challenge can save you a lot of suffering. Having someone who will serve as a Sherpa through this steep learning curve will allow you the freedom to focus on healing instead of fighting against an entity you can’t see. It’s an uneven playing field and that’s why you need the support of others.
Having a trusted person who understands your struggles, knows where the potholes are, and knows the resources to alleviating the strife can ease the pain experienced on all levels and free you to concentrate on one thing, getting better. As I’ve shared before, not everyone will be cured, but everyone can experience healing. I’ve been honored to accompany thousands of people on their journey to wellness over the past twenty-four years.
If I can provide you with any further information check out the website, http://www.survivingstrong.com or call me, Greg Katz, at 720-851-6736.